“Your son is incapable of learning.”
I sat for a minute, looking at the counselor who had requested the meeting, trying to decide if I had heard her correctly. I felt my left hand press against my pounding heart.
“Did you say, ‘incapable of learning?’” I queried. “Yes,” she responded, and proceeded to mouth paragraphs of jargon, [...]
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Your son is incapable of learning
Posted in adoption, children, family, home, parenting, tagged adoption, disabilities, handicap, learning, learning differences, learning disabilities, retardation on June 19, 2008 | No Comments »
Is Adoption for Everyone?
Posted in adoption, babies, children, family, home, parenting, tagged adoption, children, parenting, family, adopting, home, babies, special needs adoption on February 12, 2008 | 9 Comments »
If you want to be a parent, you are a candidate for adoption.
It is a natural desire to wish to pro-create. Every living thing on earth replicates and creates young, whether it is a bird or a blade of grass. It is also natural to want to protect those who are [...]
Should I Tell My Child That He’s Adopted?
Posted in adoption, babies, children, family, home, parenting, tagged adoption, children, family, motherhood, parenting, special needs on February 6, 2008 | 24 Comments »
My son came home at seven-days-of age. Fifteen years later, I am still in Nursery Nirvana. From the moment I first held him in my arms, I have felt a deep pride in him and how he came to be my son - and he knows it.
We have always discussed adoption naturally and openly, and [...]
Right Now I Want to Write About the Courage of a Young Man
Posted in adoption, animals, children, family, home, lake, parenting, tagged animals, courage, dog, family, lake life, parenting, rabbits, rescue, saving, winter on January 29, 2008 | 1 Comment »
Right now I want to write about the courage of the human spirit. In particular, the spirit locked within the adolescent breast of my thirteen-year-old son.
Right now I want to write about his witness, about his goodness, about his compassion.
Last night my son stepped into the icy waters of an ice-rimed [...]
I Am Your Mirror
Posted in adoption, children, family, parenting, tagged children, parenting, family, mirroring, self esteem, ego on January 22, 2008 | 2 Comments »
I am Your Mirror
I am your mirror. When you look into my eyes,
you see how beautiful you are.
When you enter a room, my heart lifts up to meet you;
a smile of greeting lights me up from within.
I am your mirror. When you look into my eyes,
you see love, as my soul embraces yours,
revealing to you [...]


